My Love Thinks

Relationships consume our social dialogue. Think about it, hanging with your friends what is it that you talk about? Getting your hair done, what do you talk about? Talking with coworkers?…relationships are bound to come up. There is mass obsession and confusion around relationships.  The thing is that it makes sense why we are all SO obsessed with relationships because they are so essential to a happy and healthy life! Seriously research confirms that. We are wired for relationships and they make our lives better, when they are healthy that is.

At My Love Thinks we believe that relationships shouldn’t be so darn confusing. That they shouldn’t be filled with tons of drama because if you know what you are doing then you can be a master at developing and maintaining healthy relationships! We are here to help you become the master of your relationships. We are here to simplify the process, to provide you with tools to empower you to take charge of your relationships to feel like you know what you are doing so you don’t waste too much time in a relationship that won’t go anywhere or won’t be good for you. And to help you keep that in love feeling when you’ve found a relationship that is worth keeping!

Why should you trust us?

We get it, you are probably wondering..who are these people? What is this company? Why are they the ones that have the answers? Well, let us give you some background. My Love Thinks is a sister (or brother :-)) site of For the past 20 years, we have been teaching people how to have and maintain healthy relationships through our five innovative relationship education programs: e.g. How to Avoid Falling for a Jerk (also called PICK a Partner) and Couple LINKS. Also, through Dr. John Van Epp’s book, How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk. Tens of thousands of people have been trained to be instructors in our programs and our programs have been taught to over a million people over the last 20 years.

If you’re into numbers and want to nerd out on research, our programs have been empirically validated and published in peer reviewed journals and textbooks. You can read more about our research here.

Also, if you have any questions about us or the company, please feel free to reach out to us at We’re always available to answer questions. In the mean time, you can read a little about us below.

Dr. John Van Epp

John Van Epp
Founder of Love Thinks and creator of all of the Love Thinks programs, Dr. Van Epp, is a relationship expert and the brains behind all of our content. He travels the world training Love Thinks instructors and fantasizes about having loads of free time to hole up and write books. Dr. Van Epp has dedicated the last 20 plus years to his mission of helping individuals, couples and families have healthy relationships. Also, Dr. Van Epp and the Love Thinks concepts have been featured in Time Magazine, Psychology Today, O Magazine, Cosmopolitan and the Wall Street Journal; and he has appeared on the CBS Early Show, the O’Reilly Factor, Fox News, and Focus on the Family.

Dr. Morgan Cutlip

Morgan CutlipI am a wife, a mom, a PhD in Psychology and an advocate and life-long lover of all things relationships. My work centers around creative content development for My Love Thinks as well as research on the Love Thinks programs.  I have a particular passion for helping my generation of Millennials find love, happiness, and longevity in their relationships.  Oh yeah I have conducted several studies on the Love Thinks programs as well as research on the high divorce rate of female soldiers.

PS I am available for questions so hit me up at

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